You Can't Stop Awesome - The Power of Play & Communication with Autism
When my son Cipher was diagnosed with autism, I began a journey that reshaped everything I thought I knew about parenting, learning, and communication. I quickly realized that it wasn't about helping him "catch up" to the world—it was about helping the world catch up with him.
So much of parenting an autistic child is about slowing down and learning to speak their language—often without words. It’s about honoring their unique way of seeing the world, and showing them that they don’t need to change to be accepted.
In celebration of Autism Acceptance Month, I want to share something that’s close to my heart: the importance of playing on their level and embracing communication that supports their needs—not society’s expectations.
Why "Playing on Their Level" Matters
Children on the spectrum often experience and process the world differently. What looks like "just spinning wheels" or "lining up toys" might be a soothing ritual, a learning method, or a joyful experience. When we join them in their play, without judgment, we say: I see you. I hear you. You matter.
3 Ways to Support Autistic Children Through Play and Communication
1. Follow Their Lead
Instead of directing play, observe what lights them up. Is it trains? Dinosaurs? Outer space? Use those interests to build connection. If they’re spinning a toy, spin it too. If they’re drawing the same flower or planet over and over, sit beside them and do the same.
Example Activity:
Create a coloring page together based on their favorite thing—spaceships, flowers, weather symbols—then color side by side.
2. Simplify and Tune Into Nonverbal Cues
Not all communication is verbal. Eye contact, hand movements, body posture—all are forms of speaking. Slow down and notice how they express needs without words.
Example Activity:
Use illustrated emotion cards or coloring books to explore feelings together. Let them point or color how they feel rather than say it out loud.
3. Celebrate Their Pace
Every child learns at their own rhythm. Don't compare. Instead, offer support with loving patience and tools that meet them where they are.
Example Activity:
Try sensory-friendly games like matching, sorting nature-themed cards, or creating calming jars with glitter and water. These invite learning without pressure.
Let’s Make Space for Authentic Communication
You don’t need to “fix” an autistic child. You need to support, include, and celebrate who they are. Play is their safe space. Communication is their bridge. And your patience is their freedom to be.
Let’s continue to create a world that bends toward understanding—not the other way around.
You are not alone. Whether you're a parent, a teacher, a friend, or a creator, you have the power to be a part of someone’s support team. And when we play on their level, we grow with them—not apart from them.
:)
Jande
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